Thursday, February 7, 2019

The Way We Love


Do you feel loved?  If not, it may be because your loved ones don't understand or speak your love language.  And if they aren't feeling loved, you may need to develop your love language skills.

One way to work on this is to experiment.  Try speaking a different love language every day for the next ten days and observe carefully how your loved ones respond when you show some love.

Day 1 – Words of affirmation.   You can write a love note about how special they are or say something from your heart.

Day 2 – Acts of Service.  Go out of your way to do something from your heart that shows your love by the actions you perform.

Day 3 – Physical Touch.  Today is all about the body.  Give a massage.  Hold hands.  Snuggle.  Pay attention to the reaction.

Day 4 – Quality Time.  Block out a day to spend with your significant other.  Be present.  Eliminate all distractions.

Day 5 –  Gift giving.  Show your love by putting thought into the gift and give something from your heart.

Day 6 through 10 –  Zero in on the one gift your loved one appreciated most and give something from this category  every day for the next five days.  If you got it right, you're on your way to the best relationships you've ever had with all the people you love.

Love is a two-way street.  Start by giving.  Show your love in the language your loved ones prefer and then make sure you share what love language is your favorite.  Have a great day.

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