Saturday, January 31, 2026

Waking Up in a New Neighborhood


Waking Up in a New Neighborhood

Stardate 01.31.2026

I know the feeling of being new in a neighborhood.

Not the kind with a welcome mat and a borrowed ladder.
The quieter kind. The place where you show up without history, without familiarity, and without knowing whether anyone will notice you’re there at all.

That’s where I find myself right now.

It’s a strange mix of vulnerability and excitement—standing on a new street, holding the same tools I’ve always carried, wondering if they’ll still be enough.

What surprised me most wasn’t the new environment.

It was being noticed.

Someone slowed down long enough to really read.
Not a drive-by nod.
Not a generic response.

A genuine welcome. The kind that says, I see you.

That feeling is exhilarating.

But it’s also familiar.

I’ve walked into new spaces before.

I once wrote 2,500 love letters to my wife, one at a time, describing what lived in my heart. No audience. No applause. Just the quiet discipline of showing up for love.

Later, I wrote about my dad’s final 35 days. That wasn’t a project. That was presence. Grief doesn’t ask for polish—it asks for honesty.

And then there were the blog posts.
More than 6,000 now.

Written early.
Written quietly.
Written without any promise they’d land where they were meant to.

Still, I showed up.

Not because it always felt good.

Feelings are fleeting. They come and go like weather.

Calling is different.

Calling doesn’t ask how you feel.
It asks whether you’ll return tomorrow.

That’s what keeps me showing up now. Not excitement. Not validation. Something deeper. A quiet certainty that this is what I’m meant to do—whether the street is crowded or empty.

Rain or shine, I’m here.

There’s something sacred about consistency when no one is watching. Something grounding about keeping the porch light on even when the road is quiet.

I’m grateful for new places.
Grateful for kind neighbors.
Grateful for the reminder that being seen is a gift—but being faithful is the work.

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”
— Galatians 6:9


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “You ever notice, Spock, how some folks only show up when the crowd’s watching?”
Spock: “Indeed, Doctor. Consistency appears most revealing when observation is minimal.”
Bones: “Guess that’s when you find out who you really are.”

Michael: I’ve learned that the truest work happens when there’s no applause. Showing up anyway—that’s where calling takes root.


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Mission Log

This morning, I’m at peace.

Still walking.
Still writing.
Still committed to getting one percent better.

May you live long.
May you prosper in purpose.
And may you walk boldly in divine love. 🖖

Friday, January 30, 2026

Extended Family Member Joins Military


Stardate 01.30.2026

Some family stories stretch across borders, generations, and choices that aren’t always easy to explain in a single sitting.

Years ago, my cousin Mark Mulligan made a decision to leave the familiar behind and seek a new life south of the border. If you’ve read his book, The Three Miracles, you already know that love was found there—and that love came at a cost. Tragedy followed. Growth followed too.

What matters today isn’t the full story. Some chapters deserve privacy. Some journeys are best honored without exposition.

What I can share is this: Mark and his family raised a son in another country who chose, of his own free will, to return to his father’s roots and serve.

That choice deserves recognition.

To willingly raise your hand and say I will go—knowing the cost—is no small thing. The ultimate sacrifice isn’t only made on a battlefield; it begins with the decision to stand for something larger than yourself.

So today, with pride and gratitude, I want to say:

¡Felicidades, Marcos! Congratulations.

We see you.
We honor your courage.
We are grateful for your willingness to serve others—even at great personal risk.

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”
— John 15:13


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Spock, I’ve never understood how someone can knowingly step into danger for people they’ve never met.”
Spock: “Service, Doctor, is often the purest expression of values instilled long before the uniform is worn.”
Bones: “Guess that makes it a family legacy, not just a career.”

Michael: I’ve learned that values travel farther than geography. When they’re lived faithfully, they find their way home—sometimes through the next generation.


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Today, I’m grateful—for family, for courage, and for those willing to stand watch while the rest of us sleep.

May you live long.
May you prosper in purpose.

And may you walk boldly in divine love. 🖖




Thursday, January 29, 2026

An Odd Year Ahead (Revisited)

 

An Odd Year Ahead (Revisited)

Stardate: 12.27.2012 — Reflections for Today

As I look back sixteen years, I can still feel the anticipation I carried into 2013. I called it an odd year back then—not because the calendar said so, but because something deeper felt unsettled. The world seemed tilted. Familiar patterns were shifting. Certainty felt harder to come by.

Funny thing is… that feeling doesn’t belong to 2012 alone.

In my first years of blogging, I centered my writing around three anchors: faith, hope, and love. If those were the bricks of this little corner of the internet, then I believed perseverance would be the mortar—the quiet strength holding everything together when pressure came.

I still believe that.

Perseverance has never been about never falling down.
It’s always been about getting back up.

Back then, I made a promise: to show up each morning with a fresh story—served simply, honestly, and drawn from lived experience. My words borrowed heavily from ancient wisdom, especially when life landed a heavy blow. When the count began, Scripture became my corner coach, calling me back to my feet.

Not because the fight was easy.
But because standing mattered.

That same truth applies now.

When the world feels upside down, perseverance isn’t loud. It’s faithful. It’s choosing to stand again—grounded not in headlines or fear, but in something sturdier and eternal.

This passage guided me then, and it still does now:

“Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms… And after you have done everything, to stand.”
— Ephesians 6:10–13

Scripture quoted from the New International Version (NIV).

Standing doesn’t mean we aren’t weary.
It means we’re not finished.


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “You know, Spock, humans keep acting surprised when hard seasons return.”
Spock: “Doctor, history indicates turbulence is not an anomaly—it is a constant.”
Michael: “Guess perseverance is just learning to stand without pretending the wind isn’t there.”


Mission Log

Status: Still standing
Lesson: Perseverance outlasts odd years
Course Correction: Faith first, fear last

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I’m grateful for the early days that shaped my voice,
for the odd years that tested it,
and for the steady grace that keeps calling us to rise again.

May you find strength to stand today—
even if all you can do is stand quietly.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.

Wednesday, January 28, 2026

Another Showdown on the Tennis Courts Coming Up


Stardate 01.28.2026

I try to keep my life guided by a simple plan:

God first.
Family second.
Work third.

People sometimes ask where tennis fits into that order. Pickleball usually comes up too, since I enjoy that as well—though it’s been on the back burner lately. The answer is simple: everything I do is meant to honor my Creator, and giving God my best time slot matters deeply to me.

Family comes next, very close behind. And if there’s ever a conflict between the two, God wins. I know people who order their priorities differently, but in my experience, clarity about what matters most brings peace—and often better outcomes.

That clarity was tested recently.

Our men’s 55+ tennis team is short players for a match on the first Sunday in February. The start time was pushed later in the day to accommodate a teammate who worships faithfully every Sunday morning. My captain is doing his best to make sure all of us get our two match minimum in order to be eligible for post season play.

At the same time, I was asked to be available for our next team match.

Once I worked out how to worship with my family on Saturday evening, I reached out to my boss at my day job to see if my schedule could shift. He said yes. God gets the golden hour at sunset on Saturday, I get to contribute to our early morning golden hour at my day job and then I will be on the courts after a short shift.  

God first.
Family second.
Work third.
Tennis earns an honorable fourth.

Both teams are still on winning streaks, and if things continue to go well, we’ll have an opportunity to defend our state championship and move on to regional competition this summer. A win on Sunday locks in first place with one more match to go.

My greatest challenge right now is time. We also have big plans to travel to Europe in September, so I’m learning—again—to take things one day at a time.

I’m grateful they still let me onto the courts.
Grateful for understanding teammates and leadership.
Grateful for the ability to show up at all.

“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
— Matthew 6:33


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Spock, even Starfleet officers don’t juggle this many schedules.”
Spock: “Doctor, prioritization reduces chaos. The captain’s logic is sound.”

Michael: I’m learning that when priorities are clear, decisions feel lighter—even when life is full.


Mission Log

Status: Season ongoing
Objective: Honor God, serve family, support the team
Lesson: Order creates peace


Thank you for walking alongside me.

May today unfold with clarity.
May your priorities bring you rest.
And may gratitude meet you wherever you pause.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.

Tuesday, January 27, 2026

Lessons from Our Date Night: Marriage Insights



Stardate 01.27.2026

Last Saturday, my wife and I attended a church dinner alongside 65 other couples. The evening featured a marriage and family therapist who offered practical, deeply human insights into building stronger relationships.

I took notes—not because I felt behind, but because I wanted to remember what matters.

A few points stayed with me.

What men often need most is respect.
What women often need most is love.

What men tend to fear is failure.
What women tend to fear is abandonment.

The speaker illustrated this using an infinity symbol. One side represents the husband, the other the wife. At the top of each loop is behavior. At the bottom, emotion.

When behavior is healthy, emotions tend to follow.
When behavior breaks down, emotions often spiral with it.

He also named what he called the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in marriage:

  • Criticism

  • Contempt

  • Stonewalling

  • Defensiveness

The first two are protests—cries for connection.
The latter two are shutdowns—protective strategies when connection feels unsafe.

To help couples stay off those horses, he offered a simple, practical communication tool—one designed to create emotional safety:

“I feel ___.”
“When you ___.”
“And I would like to ask you to please ___.”

It slows the moment down.
It keeps blame out of the room.
And it invites understanding before reaction.

That idea was reinforced by a timeless principle he closed with: seek first to understand before seeking to be understood.

Scripture gently echoes this wisdom:

“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
— James 1:19

Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “You’re telling me marriage has warning signs, Spock?”
Spock: “Doctor, logic suggests recognizing patterns improves long-term outcomes.”
Michael: “Turns out listening might be the most underrated skill we have.”

Mission Reflection

Sitting there with my wife, listening together, reminded me that strong marriages aren’t built through grand gestures. They’re shaped in ordinary moments—through respect freely given, love intentionally shown, and conversations handled with care.

Small changes matter.
Gentle words matter.
Listening matters.

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Mission Log

Status: Learning in real time
Objective: One percent better communication
Outcome: Hopeful and encouraged

I’m grateful for the couples who organized the evening, for the wisdom shared, and for the reminder that growth doesn’t require perfection—only willingness.

May today offer you patience where it’s needed,
Grace where it’s earned,
And understanding where it’s most desired.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.


Monday, January 26, 2026

Irish Triplet Due in 50 Days


Stardate 01.26.2026

I’ll be the first to admit it—I despise deadlines.

Without them, I tend to drift. Good intentions pile up. Projects linger half-finished. And yet, oddly enough, deadlines are also what rescue me from that endless loop.

Over time, I’ve learned to soften my resistance by tying deadlines to something joyful. For me, that joy comes wrapped in green.

St. Patrick’s Day is my favorite day of the year.

This will be the third year in a row I’ve launched a project on that date, and this one is especially close to my heart—a new coloring book, illustrated by an artist whose heart, as the Grinch would say, is two sizes too big.

Helen, from my day job, quietly inspires everyone around her just by being who she is.

The book itself is finished.

What remains is preparing my little cyber house for a new family member.

You may have heard me call Substack my front porch. It’s also where I welcome readers inside with fresh-baked cyber cookies—one sent as a gift to new subscribers. If you joined before the automation was ready and missed yours, just let me know. I’m happy to bake another batch.

People sometimes ask how I manage projects like this.

The answer is simple: teamwork.

Helen completed every illustration by the end of the year, giving me the margin I needed to prepare the book well. That margin matters. It’s helping me become more faithful with time—one percent at a time.

That’s my commitment to you too. To keep learning. To keep showing up. To keep improving gently and honestly.

“One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much.”
— Luke 16:10


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Fifty days, Michael? That sounds uncomfortably close to a deadline.”
Spock: “Doctor, structured timelines increase the probability of mission success.”

Michael: I’m learning that deadlines don’t limit creativity—they give it somewhere to land.


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May today feel unrushed.
May your next small step feel manageable.
And may gratitude meet you wherever you pause to rest.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Men's 55+ League Tennis Today


Stardate 01.25.2026

Our team is hoping to keep our undefeated streak alive today in the 55+ league. The match takes place in Moline, just across the Mississippi River in Illinois. I’m up early for the drive, grateful for a clear morning, good health, and the chance to compete alongside teammates who’ve become friends.

There’s something grounding about early mornings like this. A quiet road. A clear purpose. A reminder that showing up still matters—no matter the score.

When I return home, I’ll be sharing more interviews from our travels to Hawaii. We met some remarkable people along the way, each with a story worth listening to. I’m looking forward to passing those moments along.

Scripture offers this encouragement:

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9

🖖 Captain’s Addendum

Spock & Bones Banter
Spock: “Statistically speaking, Doctor, an undefeated streak increases pressure exponentially.”
Bones: “Pressure, Spock? He’s 55+, not fragile. Let the man enjoy the match.”

Michael’s Reflection
At this stage of life, the real victory isn’t the streak—it’s the opportunity to play at all. To move, to compete, to laugh, and to keep learning what my body and spirit are still capable of. I don’t take that lightly anymore.

Near the end of the road home, I’ll be back on the porch again—sharing stories, videos, and conversations that remind us we’re not walking alone.

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Mission Log
Status: Match day.
Objective: Show up fully.
Mindset: One percent better—win or lose.

Closing Reflection
Grateful today for movement, companionship, and another chance to step onto the court. May we all find joy in simply being able to play our part.