Saturday, January 31, 2026

Waking Up in a New Neighborhood


Waking Up in a New Neighborhood

Stardate 01.31.2026

I know the feeling of being new in a neighborhood.

Not the kind with a welcome mat and a borrowed ladder.
The quieter kind. The place where you show up without history, without familiarity, and without knowing whether anyone will notice you’re there at all.

That’s where I find myself right now.

It’s a strange mix of vulnerability and excitement—standing on a new street, holding the same tools I’ve always carried, wondering if they’ll still be enough.

What surprised me most wasn’t the new environment.

It was being noticed.

Someone slowed down long enough to really read.
Not a drive-by nod.
Not a generic response.

A genuine welcome. The kind that says, I see you.

That feeling is exhilarating.

But it’s also familiar.

I’ve walked into new spaces before.

I once wrote 2,500 love letters to my wife, one at a time, describing what lived in my heart. No audience. No applause. Just the quiet discipline of showing up for love.

Later, I wrote about my dad’s final 35 days. That wasn’t a project. That was presence. Grief doesn’t ask for polish—it asks for honesty.

And then there were the blog posts.
More than 6,000 now.

Written early.
Written quietly.
Written without any promise they’d land where they were meant to.

Still, I showed up.

Not because it always felt good.

Feelings are fleeting. They come and go like weather.

Calling is different.

Calling doesn’t ask how you feel.
It asks whether you’ll return tomorrow.

That’s what keeps me showing up now. Not excitement. Not validation. Something deeper. A quiet certainty that this is what I’m meant to do—whether the street is crowded or empty.

Rain or shine, I’m here.

There’s something sacred about consistency when no one is watching. Something grounding about keeping the porch light on even when the road is quiet.

I’m grateful for new places.
Grateful for kind neighbors.
Grateful for the reminder that being seen is a gift—but being faithful is the work.

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.”
— Galatians 6:9


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “You ever notice, Spock, how some folks only show up when the crowd’s watching?”
Spock: “Indeed, Doctor. Consistency appears most revealing when observation is minimal.”
Bones: “Guess that’s when you find out who you really are.”

Michael: I’ve learned that the truest work happens when there’s no applause. Showing up anyway—that’s where calling takes root.


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Mission Log

This morning, I’m at peace.

Still walking.
Still writing.
Still committed to getting one percent better.

May you live long.
May you prosper in purpose.
And may you walk boldly in divine love. 🖖

Friday, January 30, 2026

Extended Family Member Joins Military


Stardate 01.30.2026

Some family stories stretch across borders, generations, and choices that aren’t always easy to explain in a single sitting.

Years ago, my cousin Mark Mulligan made a decision to leave the familiar behind and seek a new life south of the border. If you’ve read his book, The Three Miracles, you already know that love was found there—and that love came at a cost. Tragedy followed. Growth followed too.

What matters today isn’t the full story. Some chapters deserve privacy. Some journeys are best honored without exposition.

What I can share is this: Mark and his family raised a son in another country who chose, of his own free will, to return to his father’s roots and serve.

That choice deserves recognition.

To willingly raise your hand and say I will go—knowing the cost—is no small thing. The ultimate sacrifice isn’t only made on a battlefield; it begins with the decision to stand for something larger than yourself.

So today, with pride and gratitude, I want to say:

¡Felicidades, Marcos! Congratulations.

We see you.
We honor your courage.
We are grateful for your willingness to serve others—even at great personal risk.

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”
— John 15:13


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Spock, I’ve never understood how someone can knowingly step into danger for people they’ve never met.”
Spock: “Service, Doctor, is often the purest expression of values instilled long before the uniform is worn.”
Bones: “Guess that makes it a family legacy, not just a career.”

Michael: I’ve learned that values travel farther than geography. When they’re lived faithfully, they find their way home—sometimes through the next generation.


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Today, I’m grateful—for family, for courage, and for those willing to stand watch while the rest of us sleep.

May you live long.
May you prosper in purpose.

And may you walk boldly in divine love. 🖖




Thursday, January 29, 2026

An Odd Year Ahead (Revisited)

 

An Odd Year Ahead (Revisited)

Stardate: 12.27.2012 — Reflections for Today

As I look back sixteen years, I can still feel the anticipation I carried into 2013. I called it an odd year back then—not because the calendar said so, but because something deeper felt unsettled. The world seemed tilted. Familiar patterns were shifting. Certainty felt harder to come by.

Funny thing is… that feeling doesn’t belong to 2012 alone.

In my first years of blogging, I centered my writing around three anchors: faith, hope, and love. If those were the bricks of this little corner of the internet, then I believed perseverance would be the mortar—the quiet strength holding everything together when pressure came.

I still believe that.

Perseverance has never been about never falling down.
It’s always been about getting back up.

Back then, I made a promise: to show up each morning with a fresh story—served simply, honestly, and drawn from lived experience. My words borrowed heavily from ancient wisdom, especially when life landed a heavy blow. When the count began, Scripture became my corner coach, calling me back to my feet.

Not because the fight was easy.
But because standing mattered.

That same truth applies now.

When the world feels upside down, perseverance isn’t loud. It’s faithful. It’s choosing to stand again—grounded not in headlines or fear, but in something sturdier and eternal.

This passage guided me then, and it still does now:

“Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms… And after you have done everything, to stand.”
— Ephesians 6:10–13

Scripture quoted from the New International Version (NIV).

Standing doesn’t mean we aren’t weary.
It means we’re not finished.


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “You know, Spock, humans keep acting surprised when hard seasons return.”
Spock: “Doctor, history indicates turbulence is not an anomaly—it is a constant.”
Michael: “Guess perseverance is just learning to stand without pretending the wind isn’t there.”


Mission Log

Status: Still standing
Lesson: Perseverance outlasts odd years
Course Correction: Faith first, fear last

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I’m grateful for the early days that shaped my voice,
for the odd years that tested it,
and for the steady grace that keeps calling us to rise again.

May you find strength to stand today—
even if all you can do is stand quietly.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.

Wednesday, January 28, 2026

Another Showdown on the Tennis Courts Coming Up


Stardate 01.28.2026

I try to keep my life guided by a simple plan:

God first.
Family second.
Work third.

People sometimes ask where tennis fits into that order. Pickleball usually comes up too, since I enjoy that as well—though it’s been on the back burner lately. The answer is simple: everything I do is meant to honor my Creator, and giving God my best time slot matters deeply to me.

Family comes next, very close behind. And if there’s ever a conflict between the two, God wins. I know people who order their priorities differently, but in my experience, clarity about what matters most brings peace—and often better outcomes.

That clarity was tested recently.

Our men’s 55+ tennis team is short players for a match on the first Sunday in February. The start time was pushed later in the day to accommodate a teammate who worships faithfully every Sunday morning. My captain is doing his best to make sure all of us get our two match minimum in order to be eligible for post season play.

At the same time, I was asked to be available for our next team match.

Once I worked out how to worship with my family on Saturday evening, I reached out to my boss at my day job to see if my schedule could shift. He said yes. God gets the golden hour at sunset on Saturday, I get to contribute to our early morning golden hour at my day job and then I will be on the courts after a short shift.  

God first.
Family second.
Work third.
Tennis earns an honorable fourth.

Both teams are still on winning streaks, and if things continue to go well, we’ll have an opportunity to defend our state championship and move on to regional competition this summer. A win on Sunday locks in first place with one more match to go.

My greatest challenge right now is time. We also have big plans to travel to Europe in September, so I’m learning—again—to take things one day at a time.

I’m grateful they still let me onto the courts.
Grateful for understanding teammates and leadership.
Grateful for the ability to show up at all.

“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
— Matthew 6:33


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Spock, even Starfleet officers don’t juggle this many schedules.”
Spock: “Doctor, prioritization reduces chaos. The captain’s logic is sound.”

Michael: I’m learning that when priorities are clear, decisions feel lighter—even when life is full.


Mission Log

Status: Season ongoing
Objective: Honor God, serve family, support the team
Lesson: Order creates peace


Thank you for walking alongside me.

May today unfold with clarity.
May your priorities bring you rest.
And may gratitude meet you wherever you pause.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.

Tuesday, January 27, 2026

Lessons from Our Date Night: Marriage Insights



Stardate 01.27.2026

Last Saturday, my wife and I attended a church dinner alongside 65 other couples. The evening featured a marriage and family therapist who offered practical, deeply human insights into building stronger relationships.

I took notes—not because I felt behind, but because I wanted to remember what matters.

A few points stayed with me.

What men often need most is respect.
What women often need most is love.

What men tend to fear is failure.
What women tend to fear is abandonment.

The speaker illustrated this using an infinity symbol. One side represents the husband, the other the wife. At the top of each loop is behavior. At the bottom, emotion.

When behavior is healthy, emotions tend to follow.
When behavior breaks down, emotions often spiral with it.

He also named what he called the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse in marriage:

  • Criticism

  • Contempt

  • Stonewalling

  • Defensiveness

The first two are protests—cries for connection.
The latter two are shutdowns—protective strategies when connection feels unsafe.

To help couples stay off those horses, he offered a simple, practical communication tool—one designed to create emotional safety:

“I feel ___.”
“When you ___.”
“And I would like to ask you to please ___.”

It slows the moment down.
It keeps blame out of the room.
And it invites understanding before reaction.

That idea was reinforced by a timeless principle he closed with: seek first to understand before seeking to be understood.

Scripture gently echoes this wisdom:

“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.”
— James 1:19

Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “You’re telling me marriage has warning signs, Spock?”
Spock: “Doctor, logic suggests recognizing patterns improves long-term outcomes.”
Michael: “Turns out listening might be the most underrated skill we have.”

Mission Reflection

Sitting there with my wife, listening together, reminded me that strong marriages aren’t built through grand gestures. They’re shaped in ordinary moments—through respect freely given, love intentionally shown, and conversations handled with care.

Small changes matter.
Gentle words matter.
Listening matters.

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Mission Log

Status: Learning in real time
Objective: One percent better communication
Outcome: Hopeful and encouraged

I’m grateful for the couples who organized the evening, for the wisdom shared, and for the reminder that growth doesn’t require perfection—only willingness.

May today offer you patience where it’s needed,
Grace where it’s earned,
And understanding where it’s most desired.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.


Monday, January 26, 2026

Irish Triplet Due in 50 Days


Stardate 01.26.2026

I’ll be the first to admit it—I despise deadlines.

Without them, I tend to drift. Good intentions pile up. Projects linger half-finished. And yet, oddly enough, deadlines are also what rescue me from that endless loop.

Over time, I’ve learned to soften my resistance by tying deadlines to something joyful. For me, that joy comes wrapped in green.

St. Patrick’s Day is my favorite day of the year.

This will be the third year in a row I’ve launched a project on that date, and this one is especially close to my heart—a new coloring book, illustrated by an artist whose heart, as the Grinch would say, is two sizes too big.

Helen, from my day job, quietly inspires everyone around her just by being who she is.

The book itself is finished.

What remains is preparing my little cyber house for a new family member.

You may have heard me call Substack my front porch. It’s also where I welcome readers inside with fresh-baked cyber cookies—one sent as a gift to new subscribers. If you joined before the automation was ready and missed yours, just let me know. I’m happy to bake another batch.

People sometimes ask how I manage projects like this.

The answer is simple: teamwork.

Helen completed every illustration by the end of the year, giving me the margin I needed to prepare the book well. That margin matters. It’s helping me become more faithful with time—one percent at a time.

That’s my commitment to you too. To keep learning. To keep showing up. To keep improving gently and honestly.

“One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much.”
— Luke 16:10


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Fifty days, Michael? That sounds uncomfortably close to a deadline.”
Spock: “Doctor, structured timelines increase the probability of mission success.”

Michael: I’m learning that deadlines don’t limit creativity—they give it somewhere to land.


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May today feel unrushed.
May your next small step feel manageable.
And may gratitude meet you wherever you pause to rest.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Men's 55+ League Tennis Today


Stardate 01.25.2026

Our team is hoping to keep our undefeated streak alive today in the 55+ league. The match takes place in Moline, just across the Mississippi River in Illinois. I’m up early for the drive, grateful for a clear morning, good health, and the chance to compete alongside teammates who’ve become friends.

There’s something grounding about early mornings like this. A quiet road. A clear purpose. A reminder that showing up still matters—no matter the score.

When I return home, I’ll be sharing more interviews from our travels to Hawaii. We met some remarkable people along the way, each with a story worth listening to. I’m looking forward to passing those moments along.

Scripture offers this encouragement:

“Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” — Galatians 6:9

🖖 Captain’s Addendum

Spock & Bones Banter
Spock: “Statistically speaking, Doctor, an undefeated streak increases pressure exponentially.”
Bones: “Pressure, Spock? He’s 55+, not fragile. Let the man enjoy the match.”

Michael’s Reflection
At this stage of life, the real victory isn’t the streak—it’s the opportunity to play at all. To move, to compete, to laugh, and to keep learning what my body and spirit are still capable of. I don’t take that lightly anymore.

Near the end of the road home, I’ll be back on the porch again—sharing stories, videos, and conversations that remind us we’re not walking alone.

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Mission Log
Status: Match day.
Objective: Show up fully.
Mindset: One percent better—win or lose.

Closing Reflection
Grateful today for movement, companionship, and another chance to step onto the court. May we all find joy in simply being able to play our part.

Saturday, January 24, 2026

Budget Friendly Steaks for Meat Lovers



Stardate 01.24.2026

I almost blew my New Year's Eve family barbecue. For those of you who don’t know me, yes, I do barbecue year-round in almost all weather conditions — blizzards being the only exception. Cold temperatures used to feel like barriers I couldn’t overcome, but now I see them for what they are: just another challenge to embrace. In fact, winter barbecuing seems to bring out even more flavor in my steaks.

The challenge this year? More propane was required than usual with the subzero temperatures. During the first stage of grilling, the Weber suddenly went cold. I checked the propane — empty. I rushed for the backup tank — also empty. A quick stop at the local gas station came up short — closed early for the holiday. My last hope was the grocery store, and thankfully they had a refill available. Back home, I restarted the grill, hoping the delay wouldn’t dampen family time. Success! The steaks were fabulous.

Here’s the lesson I learned from the meat manager: budget-friendly cuts can still deliver amazing flavor. The “cap off” cut is nearly as tender as ribeye, and the choice grade offers the best value at $9.99 per pound. I usually cook two to three pounds at a time, even if it’s just for one or two people. This gives me enough for breakfast and dinner over several days, which fits my routine of only one or two meals a day. My family enjoys the grill marks I get with quarter-turn flips, and the cap off is quickly becoming a favorite.

Give it a try on your next barbecue — quality, flavor, and budget-friendly all in one.  See the photos below from our family barbecue and note the quarter turn flip for my signature grill marks.


Scripture:
"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men." – Colossians 3:23


Captain’s Addendum:

Spock & Bones Banter:
Spock: “It is illogical to risk a New Year’s celebration over empty propane, Bones.”
Bones: “Logic, Spock? The steaks were nearly ruined! That’s reason enough for panic.”

Michael’s Reflection:
Sometimes, the small challenges — like a missing propane tank — remind us that persistence matters. Staying calm, problem-solving, and keeping our eyes on the goal (a delicious meal and good family time) can turn near disasters into defining moments.


Mission Log:
Milestone: Perfected the cap off cut for budget-friendly, flavorful barbecues.
Status: Success! Family satisfied.
Objective: Share this tip with readers and inspire confidence in embracing challenges.


Closing Reflection:
Gratitude for small wins makes a big difference. Take a moment today to celebrate the victories, no matter how simple, and invite joy into your life.





Friday, January 23, 2026

A Human Lesson from the Planet of the Apes



Stardate 01.23.2026

Do you ever wonder why we humans fight so much?

I have a feeling it often comes from something very simple: our desire to belong. No one wants to be left out — yet fitting in doesn’t always come easily.

As a kid, I was often the last one picked for sports. I was short, skinny, and not particularly athletic. At recess, I learned a survival strategy on the soccer field: I stationed myself near the goalpost. If the ball drifted my way, I could kick it in without moving more than a step or two. As Spock might say, “Highly efficient.”

While everyone else ran up and down the field building endurance, I was quite content guarding my little corner of the pitch.

That desire to belong doesn’t fade with age.

I once heard an interesting story from the set of Planet of the Apes. The actors didn’t have time to remove their ape makeup during lunch breaks. Over time, something curious happened — they began sitting with others wearing the same type of ape costume instead of their usual friends. Without intending to, they formed tribes.

We do the same thing.

In real life, we tend to congregate with people who think like us, worship like us, vote like us, or play the same sports we do. Even when we have friends across those lines, stepping outside our “tribe” can make others uncomfortable. One of my tennis teammates jokes that I sometimes go to the “dark side” when I play pickleball with my family. I happen to enjoy both — even though there’s a surprising amount of friction between those camps.

Over the next year, my quiet goal is to help bridge some of these gaps.

The closer I look at people with different viewpoints, the more I realize how much we actually share. We’re not as divided as we appear. Sometimes we just need the courage to see past the Planet of the Apes gear we’ve all learned to wear.


Scripture for the Journey

“For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body.”
— Romans 12:4–5


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Jim— I mean, Michael — you’re saying humans aren’t that different from apes in makeup?”
Spock: “Doctor, logic suggests costumes merely amplify what already exists beneath the surface.”
Michael: “That’s what I’m learning. When we stop defending our uniforms, we start recognizing each other as teammates.”


Mission Reflection

Thank you for walking alongside me as I learn — slowly, imperfectly — how to listen more and label less. My hope is that this reflection encourages you to notice where quiet bridges might already be forming in your own life.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.

Thursday, January 22, 2026

Celebrating Blog Story #6,000



Stardate 01.22.2026

Six thousand days.
Six thousand stories.
Six thousand small steps in a marathon only God could have mapped out.

Today is more than a milestone — it’s a moment I never imagined reaching. Sixteen years of showing up. Often quietly. Often in the wilderness. Often with nothing more than a gentle nudge from God whispering, Keep going, Michael.

Some thought I was out of my mind to stay with this for so long. But every story, every struggle, every lesson — they carried me here. And today, I’m peeling back the final layer of the onion to share something that has always been part of me, but rarely spoken aloud.


A Story I Never Planned to Tell

If you’ve followed this journey, you know I never set out to be a writer. As a boy, I watched my dad face rejection after rejection. He had the talent, the education, the discipline — and still, the world didn’t open the doors he hoped for.

Watching that made writing feel dangerous. Like stepping onto ground that had already burned my family once.

That tension lingered between us for decades.

And then one morning… I woke up and started typing.

I learned to use all my fingers.
I learned social media.
I learned how to share my heart without losing my peace.

And slowly, one imperfect step at a time, this unexpected calling began to shape me.


A Faith Refined Through Fire

My relationship with Jesus is stronger now than it’s ever been.

One day I asked Him, “Show me who I am in Your eyes.”
What He showed me wasn’t flattering.
But it was true.
And it was freeing.

I began to see how much of my life had been shaped by forces I didn’t fully understand — anger, fear, loneliness, self-reliance. Battles many of us carry quietly. Jesus didn’t reveal those things to shame me. He revealed them so He could heal me.

That healing led me back to where my story began.

I was raised Catholic. I drifted for years — mostly because I was angry with God. Then I met my wife. Her quiet devotion softened something in me. Worshiping beside her felt like coming home.

Today, I want to say something clearly — and gently.

I am Catholic.
And I believe deeply that every one of us belongs to God’s family no matter what label we choose to describe our particular denomination or flavor of worship.  

You don’t have to agree with me. I’m not here to convert anyone. Many of my closest friends worship in traditions different from my own, and I’m grateful for what they’ve taught me. A few aren't even sure there is a God. All people are welcome here. This space has always been about something bigger than labels. It's bigger than the fences we build around us. Perhaps that's why I was so drawn into Star Trek as a young boy watching people from the ends of the earth coming together for one purpose.

It’s about love.
And love makes room.

That spirit will guide the next chapter of these stories.


Thank You for Walking This Journey With Me

Your encouragement. Your presence. Your willingness to walk alongside me — it means more than I can say.

Today isn’t just my celebration.
It’s ours.

And if you’re wondering what comes next, I can promise you this:

We’re just getting started.

May you live long and prosper.
Have a great day.


Captain’s Addendum

Bones: Six thousand logs… Michael, remind me again why we’re not retired on some warm beach by now?
Spock: Doctor, your fixation on beaches continues to defy logic. This milestone is the predictable outcome of discipline and consistency.
Bones: Consistency? He’s running on stubbornness and whatever coffee he finds nearby.
Spock: And yet, Doctor, his method has proven effective.
Bones: (softening) All right… six thousand is no small feat. Just don’t tell him I said that.
Spock: Your attempt at secrecy is… statistically unlikely.

Michael’s Reflection:
Their banter makes me smile because they’re both right. This milestone wasn’t built on perfection. It was built on showing up — with grace, humility, and a willingness to grow one percent at a time.


Scripture for the Journey

“Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
— Philippians 1:6


Mission Log

Milestone: 6,000 consecutive blog entries
Status: Grateful. Grounded. Hopeful
Objective: Continue uplifting hearts, sharing truth, and walking boldly in divine love


Thank you for celebrating this moment with me. May it stir something quiet and hopeful in your own heart — and may God meet you gently in whatever chapter you’re walking through next.

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Wednesday, January 21, 2026

Tomorrow


Stardate 01.21.2026

There is a quiet confidence that comes from doing something over and over with a mindset of continuous improvement. That confidence has a way of spilling into other areas of life.

Not long ago, I rejected writing altogether. I saw it as a distraction—a poor use of time and energy. Now, I find myself savoring the golden hour each morning, writing before stepping out of the magical forest and into the day ahead.

Tomorrow, something my former self would have judged as foolish is about to happen.

Drum roll, please.

The odometer on this blog is about to flip to 6,000.

With that milestone comes a deeper level of vulnerability. In some ways, it feels like the very beginning all over again. I’m reminded of the advice I once gave my oldest son when he was a young boy preparing to proclaim Scripture in our house of worship. I told him if he imagined everyone in the congregation without clothes, he’d be just fine.

Today, it feels like the roles are reversed.

I’m the one standing here, metaphorically unclothed, sharing honestly from the heart. And strangely, there’s peace in that. Scripture reminds us, “Let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth” (1 John 3:18). Showing up consistently—imperfect but willing—has become one of those actions.

If you stop by tomorrow, thank you. If you’ve been here since the beginning, thank you. And if you’ve joined somewhere along the way, thank you for walking with me. If you decide to comment at the end of the story, I promise to listen and engage. 

Have a great day.


Captain’s Addendum

Bones: “Jim—sorry—Michael, exposing your soul to the universe again?”
Spock: “An illogical fear, Doctor. Authenticity has proven statistically effective.”

Michael’s Reflection:
I’ve learned that growth often requires standing in the open without armor. Writing daily has taught me that courage isn’t loud—it’s consistent. One honest entry at a time, the fear loosens its grip, and peace takes its place.

Tuesday, January 20, 2026

How Do You Fit in God's Kingdom?



Stardate 01.20.2026

I’ve heard all the arguments—pro and con—about worshiping in a church versus not worshiping in a church. Many of those arguments are rooted in feelings. And I get that. Isn’t that how we live most of our lives? If something feels right, we do it. Over time, habits form.

I’ve been on both sides of the fence when it comes to how I worship. More on that in a couple of days, when I celebrate my 6,000th blog story and peel away the last layer of the onion. Today’s question is directed at you—and how you fit in… or maybe don’t feel like you fit in at all.

Have you ever felt like something was missing in your life?
I have.

In my younger days, I believed I needed to control everything in order to get ahead. My sense of purpose was measured by possessions. Sadly, acquiring more stuff didn’t solve the problem. What followed was a season of letting go. I had mixed feelings about it, but I trusted my gut that peace might eventually find me.

It didn’t happen overnight.

Finding your purpose may be one of life’s longest journeys.

One of the greatest discoveries I’ve made is this: I am created in God’s image—and God loves me. Truly loves me. God wants me. And He wants you. Sending His only Son to die for you and me so that we can be with Him forever is the greatest act of love you will ever find in the universe.

When you truly understand that, worship no longer feels like a command.
It becomes a response.

It’s like wanting to be with your family and break bread together—especially after being away from home for a long time. That’s where I find myself today. And the quiet certainty in my heart confirms it.

I’m home.

How about you?

Yes, it’s true—you can worship God anywhere. He is everywhere. He hears you wherever you are. But keep this in mind: there may be others who are struggling to find where they belong. Your presence in a house of worship might help someone else find their way.

There is a special power when people come together to worship. Something happens in community that doesn’t always happen alone.

As you consider ways to make this new year one of your best ever, think about where—and with whom—you’re walking your faith journey.

Have a great day.


📖 Encouraging Scripture
“So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God.”
— Ephesians 2:19


🖖 Captain’s Addendum

Bones: “You’re saying people don’t need to be forced—they need to feel like they belong.”
Spock: “Correct, Doctor. Belonging precedes commitment. This appears to be a universal truth.”
Bones: “Funny how love does what rules never could.”
Spock: “Indeed. Love is… highly persuasive.”

Michael’s Log:
I’ve learned that God doesn’t ask me to fit into His Kingdom by shrinking myself. He invites me to come home as I am—and then lets love do the transforming. Maybe our job isn’t to decide who belongs, but to leave the door open and the light on.


🙏 Closing Reflection
Thank You, Lord, for making room for all of us in Your Kingdom. Help us recognize where we belong—and help us be a welcoming presence for those still finding their way home.

Monday, January 19, 2026

First Fruits


Stardate 01.19.2026

Two brothers, Cain and Abel, brought offerings to God. Abel brought the firstborn of his flock. Cain brought fruit from the ground. One gift was accepted, and the other was not. That moment—recorded in Genesis 4:3–8—set the stage for the first murder, when Cain allowed jealousy to take root and killed his brother.

I don’t fully understand why God accepted one offering and rejected the other, but I sense it had less to do with the gift itself and more to do with what was going on inside the human heart. Abel brought his first fruits. Cain brought something. Perhaps Cain’s heart simply wasn’t in it.

That story challenges me.

As for me, I’m doing my best to make sure God is first in everything I do—including the gifts I offer. That’s why I’m placing the very first copy of Where in the World is Wilson? into a time capsule that will be sealed inside our house of worship for future generations. Marcie, our director of religious education, is currently collecting contributions from our youth to include in that same capsule.

While that first copy won’t be seen again for many years, my hope is far more immediate. I’m working toward delivering enough coloring books so that every patient who wants one at the University of Iowa Stead Family Children’s Hospital can have one when the book officially launches in a couple of months—on St. Patrick’s Day.

Jesus reminds us in Matthew 25:40:

“Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.”

My prayer is that this small coloring book bears great fruit for children and families who are seeking comfort, hope, and a reminder that they are seen.


Captain’s Addendum

Spock: “It appears, Bones, that first offerings carry a significance beyond the material.”
Bones: “Spock, I’ve always said it’s the heart that counts… and apparently the timing too!”

Reflecting on that, I’m reminded that when we offer our very best to God and others—whether a first copy of a book, a coloring book for a child, or simply our attention and care—we’re planting seeds. Some may grow slowly, some unseen, but they all have the potential to bear great fruit. It’s a small act of faith with a ripple far beyond what we can measure.

Have a great day.

Sunday, January 18, 2026

One Percent Better Coaching



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I truly believe the best person equipped to coach you is yourself.

Think about it for a moment. Who is there when you’re down in the dumps—when hope feels thin, money is tight, and opportunity seems nowhere in sight? The hard truth is this: most of the time, it’s nobody but you.

Before you push back on that idea, hear me out.

Yes, there are people who have walked the road before you. Mentors, teachers, friends—they matter, and their wisdom can change a life. But that part of the story is finite. You are the one constant in your own life. You’ll be with you longer than anyone else ever will.

You know your patterns. You know your fears. You know when you’re avoiding growth—and when you’re quietly rising. Parents can guide you, but they won’t always be here. Friends may come and go. If you learn how to coach yourself, you gain an ally who never leaves, no matter how hard life gets.

So if you decide to hire yourself as your own life coach, start small.

Adopt one idea and make it your own. You’ve seen it here before: aim to be one percent better today than you were yesterday.

The first time you try this, you may feel lost. You may fail. That’s not a flaw in the process—that is the process. Failure means you’re attempting something new, and something new is always better than repeating the same patterns that kept you stuck.

Fail often. Learn continuously. Coach yourself with patience instead of judgment. Over time, those one-percent gains compound into real change—quiet, steady, and lasting.

“The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance,
but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.”
— Proverbs 21:5

Near the end of the journey, it’s rarely the dramatic leaps we’re grateful for. It’s the small, faithful steps that carried us when motivation ran low and hope needed time to catch up.

Join me here: https://substack.com/@michaelmulliganlivelong

Captain’s Addendum

Spock: “Incremental improvement remains the most efficient path to sustainable progress.”
Bones: “In plain English, Spock—just don’t quit on yourself.”

Michael: I’ve learned that waiting for someone else to rescue me only delayed my growth. Coaching myself—especially on the hard days—taught me resilience, humility, and hope. One percent better doesn’t feel dramatic, but it’s how real change shows up in a life.

Thank you for sharing this moment with me today. May this thought stay with you quietly—an encouragement to be patient with yourself, courageous in your effort, and faithful in small steps—as you carry it into prayer or reflection.

🖖

Saturday, January 17, 2026

Reclaiming My Writing Mojo


Stardate 01.17.2026

I’m taking a victory lap today. It's a quiet celebration for surviving a difficult time in my life. While I’m keeping the details private, let's just say the wheels were falling off in multiple areas of my life.

I sought help. At first, the requests were unanswered. I became more desperate.

The one thing that didn’t stop was showing up here daily on this blog — even when this darkness moved in like storm clouds signaling danger ahead. I was stuck for too long.

Today, I’m celebrating the positivity that has returned. It’s not forced. It didn’t return overnight. I simply kept moving forward until the sun came out.

Today I’m reclaiming my writing mojo. I feel like a surfer who learned to ride the big wave. This one I’m on now is the big kahuna.

For those of you who know about my personal life, no, the storm is not over — I’m just learning how to dance in the rain. Surely, there will be more storms in the future.

Thank you for your support. Have a great day.


📖 Scripture Guidance
"But they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint." — Isaiah 40:31


🖖 Captain’s Addendum

Spock: “It appears you’ve reacquired your verbal propulsion, Doctor.”
Bones: “Don’t get carried away, Spock. He’s just surfing the big one without wiping out… yet.”

Michael’s reflection: Some victories are quiet, almost invisible. I’m learning to honor each step forward, no matter how small it seems to the world. Even when the storm hasn’t passed, celebrating these moments reminds me I’m still moving — and that’s enough.


Join me here: https://substack.com/@michaelmulliganlivelong


📝 Mission Log
Today’s reminder: It’s okay to celebrate the quiet victories. Keep showing up. Keep moving forward. Your resilience is a light for others.

With gratitude,
Michael

Friday, January 16, 2026

How Wilson Helped Me Overcome My Writer's Block



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Writer’s block can feel like being stuck in mud — or worse, sinking into quicksand with no clear way out. When it hits hard, fear whispers that the words may never come again. I know that feeling well.

There were three defining moments when Wilson showed up just when I needed help breaking free.

The first came while I was struggling to write Live Long and Prosper. I started that book before I had enough life material to support it. Chapter after chapter ended up in the trash. I knew what I wanted to say, but I couldn’t find the right ingredients to say it honestly.

That’s when Wilson appeared — unexpectedly — during a shift at my day job. When no one came forward to claim him, I asked permission to adopt him. That simple yes changed everything.

For nearly five years, Wilson and I traveled together. He became an unexpected invitation. Strangers would stop, smile, ask questions, and then — almost without fail — begin sharing their stories. Those conversations now live on in The Adventures of Castaway Wilson.

Something remarkable happened along the way. As Wilson’s story flowed, Live Long and Prosper came back to life. What once felt forced began to move like manna from heaven. The second book unlocked the first.

Then came the pandemic. The momentum stalled. And eventually, Wilson disappeared from my life altogether.

Until Ireland.

While my wife and I were on a pilgrimage, my friend Bob — walking ahead along a river — suddenly shouted,
Michael, it’s Wilson!

There, floating swiftly down the river, was a red volleyball heading out to sea.

I was stunned. What were the odds?

In that moment, clarity returned. What if I hadn’t really lost Wilson? What if the adventure continued — even without custody? As I watched him drift away, a new vision formed: a coloring book capturing all the places Wilson might be now.

Just like that, the block was gone.

Wilson is still with me — in spirit, in story, and soon on the page again. Where in the World Is Wilson? will be the third project launched on St. Patrick’s Day, my favorite day of the year.

I tip my hat to Helen M. Swearson, the artist who arrived at exactly the right time and helped bring Wilson’s new journey to life — all for the children at our local hospital.

The wait is almost over.


📖 Scripture

“Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us.”
— Ephesians 3:20


🖖 Captain’s Addendum

Spock: “Fascinating. It appears creativity thrives when control is relinquished.”
Bones: “You mean when the universe stops arguing and starts cooperating.”

Michael’s Reflection:
Looking back, I see that every time I tried to force the story, it stalled. When I trusted the journey instead, the words found me. Wilson didn’t just help me write — he reminded me to stay open to wonder.


🌱 Closing Reflection

Today, I’m grateful for the unexpected companions God places in our path — and for the gentle reminders that even when something drifts away, its purpose may just be beginning. May you notice the quiet invitations waiting for you today.

Thursday, January 15, 2026

Why I Started a Substack




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Good morning, friends,

Social media is great, but it’s rented space — posts get lost, algorithms change, and meaningful connection can disappear. I wanted a place just for us. My Substack newsletter delivers reflections, updates, and encouragement straight to your inbox — simple, clean, and judgment-free.

Every step we take together also supports the University of Iowa Stead Family Children’s Hospital. Connection is rare and precious, and this space gives me a way to stay in touch, encourage growth, and make an impact — one step, one email, one day at a time.


🖖 Captain’s Addendum

Spock: “Connection thrives in spaces designed for purpose.”
Bones: “Finally, a place where my words matter.”

Michael’s Reflection: Substack is that place for us — a simple, reliable way to stay connected, share encouragement, and take meaningful next steps.

Join me here: https://substack.com/@michaelmulliganlivelong

Wednesday, January 14, 2026

When F's Are Not Failing Grades



Stardate 01.14.2026

Have there ever been moments in your life when you were so close to the trees that you couldn’t see the forest? In my writing life, that’s exactly what I’m noticing now through the rearview mirror.

I find myself standing in the middle of a vast, magical forest — one that represents my writing projects — all quietly connected by the letter F.

Any student will tell you an F is something to fear. I’ve learned to embrace it.

It reminds me of my freezing-cold early morning showers. I absolutely hate them. Yet every morning, I step in before the water gets warm. Why? Because I know what’s coming next — hours of clarity, energy, and joy from endorphins dancing inside my head.

Looking back, I’ve noticed a quiet pattern running through my books. Each one seems to explore a different way we learn to live more fully — through forgiveness, through faith, through the friends we meet along the way, and through moments of simple fun.

I didn’t plan it this way. I just kept writing the story in front of me.

Here’s how I eventually discovered the common thread:

Forgiveness — my first book, a memoir honoring my father
Finding Jesus — a novel rooted in spiritual awakening
Food, Finances, and Faith — Live Long and Prosper
Friends — The Adventures of Castaway Wilson
Fun — Where in the World Is Wilson?

Without giving away any details about what comes next after the birth of this Irish triplet in March, I’ll offer one small sneak peek. A couple more F’s are beginning to take shape in the forest — family and fitness.

For now, though, I’m content to stay right here. To enjoy the fun. To share this moment with you as I prepare to deliver my first coloring book, beautifully illustrated by my day-job teammate, Helen M. Swearson.

Have a great day.


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Michael, I’m a doctor, not a guidance counselor… but maybe some grades aren’t meant to be feared.”
Spock: “Indeed, Doctor. Logic suggests that repeated patterns often indicate purpose rather than failure.”
Michael: “That’s what I’m learning. Some lessons only make sense once you stop grading yourself and start paying attention.”


Scripture for the Journey

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”
— Romans 8:28

Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Defining Moments in Mulligan's Magical Forest



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Family confidentiality prohibits me from sharing certain details behind the scenes, but I want to take a moment to express how grateful I am for all the support my prayer warriors have been giving me these past couple of months. Every prayer has been answered, and I feel blessed beyond measure. The photo you see above features the newest addition to the magical forest, a wind chime given to me by Tina, one of my day job teammates who volunteers as my chief of staff for our fundraising projects.  A couple of days ago our day job team came together at Texas Roadhouse to celebrate another amazing year. The team humored me with a tribute to my super hero, Spock. The hand gesture, rooted in the Old Testament, is meant to be a blessing. Indeed, this has been a fascinating year of growth for all of us. I chose to place the wind chime indoors in my home studio as the high winds outdoors might break the fragile glass. Thank you, Tina.



Sometimes, I seek comfort in the magical forest, a place where my imagination can run wild and where creativity feels limitless. Today marks a defining moment in the magical forest: I’m now developing vlogs using my new technology upgrades. Please be patient as I introduce these video messages — I’m still learning the ropes of production, but my goal is to bring the stories and messages you love to life in new ways.

Your feedback will help me improve the quality of the videos. Every tweak, every adjustment, is part of my 1% better mindset — steady, daily improvement that compounds over time. I hope to continue growing this magical forest with you and would love to hear what you’d like to see in the coming months.

I’m grateful for the ongoing support of our partner, DoNotAge, which helps me focus on creating content that uplifts and inspires. Their support allows me to explore these new creative avenues while staying true to my mission of sharing hope and purpose.

Scripture:
"Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans." – Proverbs 16:3

Captain’s Addendum:
Spock & Bones Banter:
Bones: “I still don’t understand why you insist on video when words have served us well.”
Spock: “Logic dictates that expansion of mediums increases outreach efficiency.”

Michael’s Reflection:
I realize that growth sometimes requires stepping outside comfort zones. Just like in the forest, we can explore new paths, experiment, and embrace small improvements. Each video, each new attempt, is a chance to connect more deeply and creatively.

Closing Reflection:
Today, I invite you to consider your own “magical forest” — a place where your ideas, hopes, and prayers can grow. Take one small step forward today, and remember: growth is a journey, not a race.


 

Monday, January 12, 2026

Irish Triplet Check-in



Stardate 01.12.2026

Today, I want to offer a heartfelt shout-out to Helen M. Swearson, one of my day-job teammates who generously donated her free time to serve as the artist for my first coloring book.

Where in the World Is Wilson? is now in its final trimester. I ordered an ultrasound from Amazon early this morning to check on the progress. While there were a few complications early on, this may turn out to be the smoothest delivery of the Irish triplets yet.

If you’ve been following the journey of the Irish twins — Live Long and Prosper (born Stardate 03.17.2024) and The Adventures of Castaway Wilson (born Stardate 03.17.2025) — consider this your official progress report. Yes, this third book is on track to launch on St. Patrick’s Day, marking three consecutive years of storytelling, faith, and purpose.

This project would not exist without Helen from my day job stepping in at a critical moment in my life.

Helen is one of those rare people who carries a quiet but powerful heart for helping others. From the beginning, this coloring book was meant to be a source of comfort for children at the University of Iowa Stead Family Children’s Hospital — a gentle continuation of Wilson’s story after we were separated.

Readers kept asking the same question:

“Where’s Wilson?”

The coffee table book offered a clue.

While traveling in Ireland, a red volleyball appeared in a river beside an Irish castle — not far from where the Blarney Stone rests. I was tempted to jump in and rescue it, but the current was too strong. Instead, I watched as it floated downstream and disappeared into the sea.

That’s when it hit me.

What if Wilson didn’t disappear?
What if he kept going?

From that moment on, I began imagining all the places Wilson might have traveled since I last saw him. Helen helped bring those ideas to life, turning imagination into illustrations. Soon, you’ll get to see Wilson’s newest adventures — and I must say, his life has turned out to be rather extraordinary.

Helen has been sharing her drawings with family members, and Wilson has quickly become their favorite character. That tells me everything I need to know.

I’ll be sharing more about Helen as we move closer to the launch. While each book in this Irish trio is unique, they all share a common purpose: raising funds for our local children’s hospital. There are also anonymous supporters quietly working behind the scenes, helping make this mission possible.

I promised Helen she will be well rewarded for her contributions — and I wouldn’t be surprised if the world gets to know her name one day.

Stay tuned.

Have a great day.


Captain’s Addendum 🖖

Bones: “Michael, I’m a doctor, not a children’s book critic… but even I know when a story has heart.”
Spock: “Indeed, Doctor. Logic suggests that stories rooted in compassion tend to travel far — much like this… Wilson.”
Michael: “That’s the part that still amazes me. What started as loss turned into legacy. Sometimes letting go is exactly what allows a story to grow.”


Scripture for the Journey

“The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.”
— Proverbs 11:25


Mission Reflection

Thank you for walking this journey with me — for believing in small ideas, shared hearts, and stories that keep going even when we can’t see where they land. May this encourage you to trust that what you release with love never truly disappears.

🖖 Live long. Prosper in purpose. Walk boldly in divine love.