Saturday, March 21, 2026

Are You Living in the Moment?



Stardate 03.21.2026

Before I get too far into today’s reflection, I want to pause for something important.

Two of my siblings were born on this day—different years, same date.

Happy birthday.

Your brother is thinking of you this morning. I’ll be reaching out later today to share my love, but I didn’t want the moment to pass without saying it here first.

Now, as I settle into this golden hour, a simple question has been resting on my mind:

Am I really living in the moment?

If I’m being honest, that hasn’t always been easy for me.

There were seasons in my life when I spent far too much time looking backward. Replaying moments. Digging up memories. Holding onto regrets—mistakes I wished I could undo, opportunities I let slip by, relationships that changed or faded.

Other times, I found myself living too far ahead.

Chasing goals. Thinking about what’s next. Planning, preparing, trying to get somewhere other than where I was.

And somewhere in between the past and the future…

I missed the present.

Maybe you’ve felt that too.

Because the truth is, both directions can quietly take something from us.

The past can hold us.
The future can pull us.

And before we realize it, the moment right in front of us slips by unnoticed.

But this morning feels different.

There’s a calm clarity in recognizing something simple, yet powerful:

I am exactly where I’m supposed to be.

Not yesterday. Not tomorrow.

Right here.

This day in front of me feels rich—not because everything is perfect, but because everything I need for this moment is already here.

There’s something freeing about that.

It softens the pressure.

It quiets the noise.

It reminds me that life isn’t waiting somewhere else—it’s happening now.

So I find myself asking you the same question I’m asking myself:

Is there something in your past that’s still holding your attention?

Is there something ahead of you that’s pulling you out of today?

And if so… what would it look like to gently return to this moment?

Not forcefully. Not perfectly.

Just… intentionally.

There’s a verse that comes to mind as I sit with this:

“This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” — Psalms 118:24

Not yesterday.

Not tomorrow.

This day.

That feels like the invitation.

As I wrap up my golden hour, I’m preparing to head to cardio tennis and spend time with friends on the court. The weather is supposed to reach record highs today—one of those unexpected gifts that shows up early in the season.

And I don’t want to miss it.

Not by being distracted.

Not by being somewhere else in my mind.

Just by being present.

Fully here for whatever the day brings.

That’s the goal.

Not perfection.

Presence.


Captain’s Addendum

Spock looked at me thoughtfully. “Captain, it would appear that your greatest challenge is not time itself, but your relationship to it.”

Bones gave a slight grin. “In other words… you’ve been everywhere but where your feet are.”

I nodded.

Because that’s exactly it.

And maybe today is a chance to change that.


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Mission Log

The present moment is easy to overlook.

It doesn’t demand attention. It doesn’t announce itself.

But it’s where life actually happens.

So wherever you are today… be there.

That’s more than enough.

Thank you for taking this moment with me.

🖖

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